Jared is a 26-year-old man living in Benin City with his God-fearing family. However, behind the facade of his family’s religiousness, Jared had a dark secret that he kept hidden from everyone. In just one year, his body count had skyrocketed from zero to an astonishing 150. His wild and promiscuous lifestyle had led him down a dangerous path, filled with unbridled lust and sexual pleasure. But how did Jared go from being a reserved and introverted young man to a wild and reckless playboy?
In this article, Jared tells us his captivating story, reliving the shocking events that led to his dramatic transformation. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we explore the highs and lows of Jared’s sexual escapades and the impact they had on his life and relationships.
The Story by Jared
Upbringing
I grew up in a home that was very religious. My mother called us to devotion every morning where we were taught the Word and told to do all that is pleasing and acceptable to God. I really believed everything that was taught me, in a sense, I still do. I do not lie or steal or wish anyone harm. Throughout my primary and secondary school days, when Osato and Michael were caught fooling around in the boys’ toilet or when Daniella had to stop coming to school because she was pregnant, I kept my body sexually pure.
The Emmanuel Factor
That all changed when I entered Uni and met Emmanuel. At first glance, Emmanuel appeared to be a good influence (I’m not saying he turned out to be a bad one). Anyways, Emmanuel was a very smart guy and I was drawn to his intelligence. Now, at the time I met him, I wasn’t your typical virgin. I had had girlfriends, had smooched, and even had boob action but that was all.
It was not immediately apparent, but Emmanuel was a sex addict. Once I discovered this, things began to make sense. I’d been so inspired by Emmanuel’s joyful night classes with all the big girls but I found out later that was a way he got them into his bed. For a guy who seems so quiet and wise, Emmanuel was secretly a braggart. In private, he bragged about the calibre of girls he’d had sex with.
The saddest thing is that I envied him. I envied him not just the class of ladies he had bedded but also the freedom he had in the first place. Where was his fear of God, and perhaps, more concerning, where was his fear of hellfire and eternal condemnation? I wanted to be like him so badly that I began to look more closely at what he was doing.
Jared: A Sexual Journey
I started with pornography. It went from just looking at pornographic pictures to watching every kind of stuff on the Internet. At some point, my phone was filled with all kinds of viruses from the dodgy sites I frequented. But it was not enough and I knew I had to cross the virgin line.
I started with the girls in my school. At this point, I’d watched Emmanuel for a whole year. We were in 200L and I was determined 2014 would be my year. The first girl I had sex with, I met in fellowship, ironically. She said she was finding herself and I told her I could help.
The second, third, fourth, and fifth were freshers. Freshers are funny because they think they have something to prove; that they are big university babes. Once I started, I couldn’t finish. When I couldn’t find sisters in my world, I joined Tinder. The whole thing drained me in every aspect, but especially financially cos if I wasn’t impressing a girl with a fancy dinner date, I was giving her thanks-for-coming money.
At the end of my 200L, I was looking at 4 carryovers, an empty bank account, and poor mental, physical, sexual, (let’s not mention spiritual) health. But I was very happy because my body count had also gone from zero to 150.
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